11:29a so yesterday one of my coworkers blatantly misgendered a trans property owner to me. made me super uncomfortable. they also sent them a fucking letter to placate their request to change the zip code on their physical property address in our records.
that last one there, the placating letter? that was fucking wrong. wrong and now i’m the bad transphobe for not honoring that request.
it literally boils down to the fact that zip codes defines nothing except for what post office services your area. it does not actually define what city you reside in, except for superficially. find out what fucking city you’re paying taxes to, that’s what city you live in. the city your post office is in defines what you put on envelopes.
like my fucking guts hurt because this woman’s probably assuming i’m an asshole and just being difficult and NOOOOOO SERIOUSLY THIS SHIT ISN’T IT
YOUR INSURANCE COMPANY AND THE COMPANY THAT SOLD YOU THE PROPERTY PUT THE WRONG GODDAMN ZIPCODE ON THE FORMS BECAUSE THEY ASSSSSSUSUUUUUUDUUDUDMMMMMEEEEEDDDDDDDDD WRRRRROOONNNNNGGGGGG
AND THE POST OFFICE IS FULL OF ACTUAL ASSHOLES
2:02p i’ve been a big ass ball of stress all week. at least my cloth pads are holding up. they’re actually performing better than the menstrual cup did. like can i plz just have a pallet of hagen daz non-dairy and crawl into a cave for another week or so. please leave my computer and knitting tote ty
4:33p it’s been a stressful week. apparently one of the people in my department is out on medical leave and i had no fucking idea. it’s like peak season at that. jfc. i’m going to have to take a day off to close on my condo. at least i have like a month between closing and move-out date for the apartment. fingers crossed this works out.